I use to think that I should SAY everything I was thinking. I was wrong!
Here's a story I wrote about a lesson I learned from a woman who destroyed her husband by her unfiltered speech. Here's an excerpt:
After we ordered our dinner, she said, "Carl, I saw you flirting with that waitress!" (He wasn't.) "Caarrrrlll," she whined, "can't you do anything right?" You're holding your fork like a little kid!" (He was.)
When he mispronounced an item on the desert menu, she said, "No wonder you flunked out of college, you can't read!" She laughed so hard that she snorted, but she was the only one laughing
You can read the whole story HERE